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Everything happens for the better?


We all heard the phrase ‘Everything happens for a reason’, and many times we can justify that statement. We might have made a mistake in the past and learnt the lesson to not make that mistake again. We might have experienced something that gave us valuable lessons and we have learnt and grown due to that experience.

However, do you believe that everything that happens to us is better for us in the end? We often want to achieve certain things in life, like getting a specific job, having a baby, selling a house – and things just don’t turn out the way we had imagined.  Despite all our efforts, we will not get the job, we will not get pregnant and we will not be able to sell the house. Is there a bigger plan that has something better in store for us?

It can be a real struggle when things don’t turn out the way we had imagined or it takes much longer time than we thought. It can be really frustrating when we have prepared ourselves, took all the necessary actions and it still doesn’t work out. What do we do then?




All we can do is have patience, and trust that there is a bigger plan for us. In the meantime, we can focus our energies on what else we can do to improve our life. For example, if you do not get the job, maybe it is time to complete that course you were always interested in, and slowly build your own business. Whatever the situation may be, you can always improve a certain aspect of your life that might help you become the person you really want to be in the future.


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Clarify your dreams


When we are trying to achieve new goals or create new dreams in our life, we need to be aware why we want those things and whether we really want them the fastest way or we can patiently wait a little longer.

It is very easy to become jealous of others’ achievements today in this world, but we definitely should not follow others blindly. We need to be aware who we really are and what is important for us.

Instant manifestation usually doesn’t work, to manifest bigger dreams we need some time. Why? Maybe because we need to be ready to get them.

When a baby is learning to walk, he does not want to learn it overnight, it takes as much time as it takes. When you go to school, you don’t want to learn everything in one day, you know that it will take some time. You are not questioning whether you will get that degree or not, whether the Universe will grant it to you or not, but you know that it will take some efforts and time.

Similarly, when we decide to have a big dream, we need to clarify in ourselves what exactly we want to achieve and why. Will it make us happy? Is it something we are meant to do in life? How will it serve our growth?

When you are impatient and you want to go ahead of your dreams before you are ready, Life will give you a lesson to learn and it might be painful.

Take the time to clarify your dreams! You can do it by being grateful for what you already have and by imagining those positive things you want to experience in your future.



Make lists of things you are grateful for. This way, you will know what is really important for you in life. Therefore, you will not want something that is not really You.

Then make lists of things you want to see in your future. Imagine how you would like to live, what kind of work you want to do, how you want to feel, how you want to spend your time, etc.

Keep your attitude and emotions positive, make the necessary efforts; and you are going to live your dreams as soon as you are ready to get them! It is guaranteed!


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